Author: Robin Davidson

  • Your fight or flight muscles (part 3) – accessory breathing muscles

    Your fight or flight muscles (part 3) – accessory breathing muscles

    What other muscles get activated during the fight or flight response?

    Overcoming Chest Breathing: How Stress Locks Your Neck and Chest Muscles

    In my two previous blog posts, I explained how the psoas and masseter muscles hold tension when your sympathetic nervous system (the fight-or-flight response) over-activates. However, the tension pattern does not stop there. Chronic stress also recruits your accessory breathing muscles.

    What Are Accessory Breathing Muscles?

    These small muscles reside in your neck and chest. Your body activates them automatically when you stop practicing deep diaphragmatic breathing and fail to expand your rib cage.

    Under normal circumstances, your body safely engages these accessory muscles to assist your breathing during heavy exertion, such as vigorous exercise. However, using them for daily, relaxed breathing is highly inefficient. Wellness professionals call this habit chest breathing, a dysfunctional pattern where your rib cage lifts upward toward your chin rather than expanding outward.

    The True Cost of Chronic Chest Breathing

    When daily stress locks you into chest breathing, your neck and chest muscles work overtime. This constant over-activation keeps your body trapped in a perpetual fight-or-flight loop. By training your body to return to lateral rib cage expansion, you can release chronic neck tension, lower your stress hormones, and restore optimal respiratory health.


    The chronic overuse of these neck and chest muscles leads to fatigue, tension headaches, neck pain, jaw tension and upper back pain. By breathing in this way, you are also stimulating your flight or fight nervous system in an ongoing feedback loop. It is important to have a breathing assessment if you have any of these symptoms.

    Breath re-patterning is an important part of a holistic approach.

    At Halcyon House, both Jennifer and I will assess your breathing pattern as part of our treatment assessment. We will recommend breathing practices that will assist you in regaining optimal and efficient breathing.

  • Your fight or flight response (part 2)

    Your fight or flight response (part 2)

    What other muscles get activated during the fight or flight response?

    In April’s newsletter, I discussed how the psoas muscle tightens during a fight or flight response as protection and a way to escape. This month, I’d like to discuss how the masseter and temporalis muscles can also become active during a stress response. Have you ever caught yourself clenching your teeth together during a stressful event. The masseter and temporalis act together to bring the teeth together. This function is for chewing food. However, this action can become a habit in response to stress.

    a diagram of the muscles of the head including the temporalis muscle and masseter muscle.

    The over-activation of these muscles can cause: Tension headaches, especially at the temples Jaw/TMJ pain Teeth wearing Painful chewing Jaw locking or cracking.

    At Halcyon house, we have several treatments that can help with this including:

    • Nervous system regulation/awareness: noticing when we are clenching
    • Relaxation techniques: learning to relax the body to reduce overall tension
    • Breathing practice: optimal breathing promotes a calmer/less reactive nervous system
    • Acupuncture: fascial acupuncture points
    • Massage: myofascial release of tension patterns in muscles and fascia
    • Craniosacral therapy: nervous system regulation
    • Neuromuscular re-education: establishing optimal use of these muscles, both contracting and relaxing.
  • Body as Place

    Body as Place

    Sara and I were invited to present at Svalja Whole-being’s Community Conference in Duluth.  We are so excited to explore “body as place”.  We will experiment with what makes you feel at home and safe in your body.

    The conference starts Friday 5/29 from 6:00-9:00pm and continues 5/30 from 8:00-6:00.

    Contact http://www.svalja.yoga/community-conference for more information Join us for a two-day immersion into the heart of our community.

    Flourish is an invitation to ground ourselves in the wisdom of this place while leaning into the possibilities of what we can create together. From a soulful Friday night of live music and poetry at SOLCA to a Saturday filled with movement, guided storytelling, and deep reflection, this gathering is designed to nourish your nervous system and spark your creative spirit.

    Throughout the weekend, experience a curated Art and Poetry Exhibit coordinated by Savannah Ottillia, offering a visual and written landscape of our shared journey.

  • What are fight or flight muscles?

    What are fight or flight muscles?

    These are muscles that activate when we are in a sympathetic reaction (fight or flight). This can be in reaction to something in our environment that doesn’t feel safe, something happening internally (a physical stressor) or in our mind (stress).

    One of these muscles is the Psoas. This muscle does several actions that support us in fight or flight. It helps lift our knees up to run (flight) or defends our core (fight). If these muscles activate and then turn off again, we might not feel any consequences. It’s when these muscles turn on and stay on that we will notice symptoms. These could include hip pain, back pain, restricted breathing, fatigue and nervous system dysregulation (anxiousness, depression).

    The tightness of the psoas muscle will also be increased with prolonged sitting.

    The Halcyon House staff have many practices/treatments that will support you in releasing tension in the psoas:

    • Acupuncture
    • Massage
    • Craniosacral therapy
    • Somatic based movement/yoga
  • Wellness Access Initiative

    Making Holistic Health Accessible: The Halcyon House Wellness Access Initiative

    At Halcyon House, we firmly believe that true healing and long-term well-being should never be a luxury. We recognize that financial barriers often prevent individuals from receiving the critical care they deserve. To bridge this gap, we proudly feature the Halcyon House Wellness Access Initiative, a community-funded program intentionally designed to offset the out-of-pocket costs of our clinical services for the people who need them most. Read on to find out how to save money on your care:

    We passionately believe that the holistic wellness services we provide are highly beneficial. They are often a necessary component of deep physical and emotional recovery. Through this dedicated wellness subsidy initiative, our core mission is to create a welcoming, supportive avenue of access for individuals who would otherwise lack the financial resources to afford comprehensive therapeutic care.

    To ensure these resources go directly to those in need, selection for the program is based on a thoughtful, compassionate evaluation of several key pillars:

    • Financial Need: Assessing income barriers to ensure equitable healthcare distribution.
    • Physical and Emotional Need: Prioritizing chronic conditions, trauma recovery, or acute distress.
    • Treatment Goals: Aligning with individuals dedicated to active, long-term personal healing.
    • Individualized Treatment Plans: Following custom clinical recommendations outlined by our experience staff.

    By prioritizing accessible community wellness and evidence-based care, Halcyon House is deeply committed to nurturing our local neighborhood from the inside out. Together we can build a healthier, more resilient future where everyone has the tools to thrive!

    Selection Process

    Applicants will fill out an online application to collect information about financial need, physical limitations/impairments and how their individual situation interferes with daily life.  They will also have at least one session or consultation with one (or more) of the Halcyon Wellness Team, who will report on their need for services, create a treatment plan that includes goals, frequency, services, and duration. This de-identified information will be provided to the selection committee for final approval. 

    Would you like to be involved in the selection committee? Apply here.

    If you would like to support the Wellness Access Initiative, donations can be made at the front desk or online.

  • Difficult times

    Difficult times

    During these difficult times, I’m often asked “how are you dealing with this”.

    My answer is “it’s not easy!”

    Here are some things that I have been practicing:

    • Stay informed but limit the time that I’m taking in (digesting) information/news. I’m listening to a trusted news source (for me it’s MPR) in the morning and evening for 30 minutes.
    • Allowing myself to feel the emotions that arise (not pushing them away). Anger, sadness, fear, all of it.
    • Prioritizing self care and nervous system regulation. It’s important for me to stay grounded in the practices that support me. I focus on grounding practices such as such as extended exhale breathing, using weighted lap blanket, and focus on pressing into the earth.
    • Find glimmers in daily life. Glimmers are moments of ventral vagal connection. They can be things like noticing the lake shimmering on a sunny day, feeling the freedom of skiing down a wodded hill, or burying my face in my dog’s curly fur.
    • Find and spread hope. Notice when you see people acting kindly and showing compassion. In return, I will create opportunities in my day to give back and connect with others.
  • Holidays

    Holidays

    The Art of Wintering Well: Discover Hygge and Holistic Wellness at Halcyon House

    Now that the busy holiday season is behind us and we are officially stepping into the new year, it is the perfect time to focus on rejuvenation, mindful rest, and personal growth. We are absolutely thrilled to announce one of our upcoming community events at Halcyon House: a brand-new, immersive winter workshop title The Art of Wintering Well.

    Co-hosted by myself and wellness expert Sara Shepard, this unique event is designed to help you thrive during the colder months. We are combining our deep passion for nervous system regulation and sensory system health with the cozy, time-honored Danish practice of Hygge. Instead of a dry lecture, we will present this transformative health information in an incredibly relaxing, fun, and highly interactive environment.

    Halcyon House inself is naturally filled with authentic Hygge charm. During this special workshop, we will intentionally use our preaceful space to help you physically and emotionally experience the profound beauty of this comforting lifestyle practice. You will walk away with practical, everyday tools to nourish your mind-body connection, manage seasonal stress, and cultivate deep inner warmth.

    Our goal is to bring the neighborhood together through enriching local workshops that inspire lifelong vitality. Whether you are looking to soothe your nervous system, connect with like-minded neighbors, or simply enjoy a restorative afternoon, this experience is for you.

    We cannot wait to welcome you to our upcoming winter wellness gathering! Space is limited for this special interactive event, so be sure to reserve your spot early. We hope to see you very soon!

    A poster for The Art of Wintering Well - a workshop series, a winter holiday themed series of classes to make the most of the winter season.
  • What is neuro-regulation?

    What is neuro-regulation?

    Neuro-regulation is using different tools to modulate your nervous system.

    How do we know that we are in a fight or flight (sympathetic) nervous system?

    • Rapid heart rate
    • Shallow and/or rapid breathing
    • Chest breathing
    • Poor digestion/elimination
    • Tense muscles
    • Scattered/unfocused thoughts
    • Decreased memory
    • Angry or agitated emotions
    • Feelings of wanting to run away/escape

    What are some tools we can use to move our nervous system toward more ease?

    • Diaphragmatic (belly) breathing. Think low (in the body) and slow. Subtle/smooth.
    • Extended exhale breathing. Breath in through the nose and slowly out through pursed lips.
    • Gentle movement (like yoga or stretching). Especially twists!
    • Rocking or swaying.
    • Calming music, lighting, smells.
    • Relaxation using guided apps such as “Insight timer”
    • Grounding: feeling your body on the chair, bed, or floor.
  • What is craniosacral therapy?

    What is craniosacral therapy?

    We’ve been asked this question many times since I began offering this service at Halcyon House. Here’s a brief description of a very nuanced therapy:

    It is a hands-on technique that was developed by Dr. John Upledger (Osteopath) in the 1980’s while working at the University of Michigan. He explored the nervous system

    connection from the brain through the spinal cord (cranium to sacrum). This connection was through a connective tissue covering called dura mater and cerebral spinal fluid that flowed inside it. He discovered that by moving the bony parts of the system, it allows the

    fluid to move more freely. He found that you can feel this as a physiological rhythm. This craniosacral rhythm can be felt through the practitioner’s hands with very light touch.


    What can someone expect when having a craniosacral therapy session?

    • Lying in a comfortable position on a massage table with clothes on
    • Very light touch in different parts of your body to assess
    • Focused attention to areas of the body that present with restriction
    • You might feel physical or emotional responses during and after the session
    • A return of your system to homeostasis (general health/well-being)
    • Relaxation

    Typically, I will recommend sessions every 2-4 weeks for 4 sessions to assess the effectiveness. You should notice progression/improvement over this time. I will also provide you with additional practices that you can do between sessions to support this progress.

    Interested in a session?